So I don't know if you have a "Meme", but I think that in order to call your grandmother "Meme", she has to meet some criteria that make her fall into the "kicky old lady" genre. There are no timid Memes out there. Mine, por exemplo, wears rompers much like this (only around the house, of course, she's not
that kind of Meme.):


Only she has her giant 2" wide bra straps exposed, and she is short and busty as hell. Footwear of choice for this getup is a pair of duck slippers that quack when she walks. I am NOT making this up.
She used to make us pillows with appliques of a pair of lips on them. She called them hot lips, and they were kinda awesome. Mems turns 80 next month, and so I am working on a tribute to the hot lips, a knitted hot lips pillow with a motif that consists of many tiny hot lips. More to come soon!